208) The Weak Blames, The Strong Praises
What do you normally do? Blame more or Praise more?
Why is that people like to blame more?
They blame others because they want to show that others are wrong, and they are right.
It is human nature wanting to be correct or right all the time. Our society demands us to always to do the right things or being right.
The successful are being celebrated, looked up to, praised and honoured.
The failures are being looked down, neglected and even scolded.
It is the Maslow's hierarchy of needs, esteem needs is one of the psychological needs.
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One of the easiest way is for the psychologically weak person to blame others and feel being right to fulfill his/her own self-esteem. Being right while others are wrong.
The Psychologically Strong person has already enough Self-esteem. They have no need to blame others. When another person make a mistake, the strong normally will still praise that person for trying out. Maybe even give some encouragement and tips to do better.
The Strong always see the positive while the Weak always see the negatives.
They are Strong because they see the positives.
They are Weak because they see the negatives.
So, set your mind on what you want. To be Strong or Weak?
See the positives in yourself and others. Praise others for the effort they put in,
Everyone starts from different starting point levels. To start doing something is always better than watching for something to happen.
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